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Bare_Truth wrote:The conundrum comes in to the transgender issue in the matter of numerous cases in which very young children assert that they are the opposite sex to what their genetilia actually is. That situation would imply that there is some inherent physical cause of the problem and the articles you cited fail to address that question but rather appear to deal with adult cases only.
The doctors increased the pressure behind the proposal [to perform surgery on intersex children] by noting to the parents that a decision had to be made promptly because a child’s sexual identity settles in by about age two or three.
jochanaan wrote:I, for example, am male and heterosexual, and happy to be so, yet I too do not fit what many expect a man to be: I never was into "rough horseplay" and was happy (for a few years) to play with my sisters' dolls and clothes. If I had had different, more restrictive parents, I might well have felt uncomfortable being male given my tendencies, and even thought about becoming trans; even as I am, I enjoy my "feminine" attributes as much as my more masculine ones.
I think that you have just put words to a point that ought to be seriously considered in this discussion. I wonder if because we now have the technology to meddle in such things that the "possibility has created the probability of doing so"? Is the novelty of having this sort of "solution" creating the curiosity of trying it out?Petros wrote:.... It is interesting that as the culture claims to be defusing cultural gender imperatives, more of the young seem to feel somehows they are wrong.
jochanaan wrote:On the other hand, would we have done so much research and experimentation if there weren't folks who felt they needed it?
Of course one might wish to ask if this 40% might be an identifiable sub-group of that demographic. Perhaps if they were identifiable prior to transition they could be spared. Then again if our society's psychoanalytical diagnostics were that good the whole problem could be solved by better counseling and treatment or preparation. Also was this a different percentage when one analyzes M to F versus F to M. My own suspicion is that if one is raised in one gender and transitions to the other the adjustment is probably more difficult. If that were true then earlier transition might also improve these horrible statistics. Supposedly transition before puberty produces a better result and the use of hormone blockers is used to delay puberty to allow more time to sort things out. But to say the least I would not wish gender dysphoria on anyone.Maverick wrote:A note: suicide attempts among transgenders averages 40% of their demographic. That's 2 in 5 transgender people committing suicide. They are a small percentage of the population so it goes unnoticed... but imagine how the world would be if 2 in 5 of any other demographic were suicidal.
We should not fail to consider how people, especially in schools, treat those who do not conform to "gender norms." It's bad enough for those who simply aren't "manly enough" compared to many of our crazy "norms"; I remember how I was bullied in school (not badly, thank God! I had too many older family members standing up for me) simply because I was a skinny kid who liked to read the encyclopedia to relax. How much worse is it for those who actively feel that gender norms just don't apply to them? I guess that, if we knew the circumstances of that 40%, we'd find that most of them were driven to it.Maverick wrote:A note: suicide attempts among transgenders averages 40% of their demographic. That's 2 in 5 transgender people committing suicide. They are a small percentage of the population so it goes unnoticed... but imagine how the world would be if 2 in 5 of any other demographic were suicidal. We'd notice a problem. And yes, I think that transgender people do have some kind of mental "problem," some might say illness. That 2 in 5 does not count the number who have contemplated suicide but did not attempt it (as I understand it) so there could be even more who are depressed.
Source: http://williamsinstitute.law.ucla.edu/wp-content/uploads/AFSP-Williams-Suicide-Report-Final.pdf
I remember how I was bullied in school simply because I was a skinny kid who liked to read the encyclopedia to relax.
There is a contradiction inherent here. Attempting suicide is not the same as committing suicide. Reports I have read are that most who attempt suicide are not really trying to die but rather seeking attention because they are not coping well with their challenges. Particularly, suicides ending in death are higher for men than women. So taking the quote at face value probably a good bit less than 40 % are actually achieving suicide. It would be most interesting to see how the percentages of actual suicides are occurring among those identifying as female and those identifying as male, in order to see if those match up with the percentages ofMaverick wrote:A note: suicide attempts among transgenders averages 40% of their demographic. That's 2 in 5 transgender people committing suicide.
Bullying can be brutal, teasing is on the same spectrum but much milder, Internal turmoil and the ability or inability to deal with the inner turmoil can make a huge difference on how much from the outside is too much. So when you use a strong word like "driven", there has to be a judgement call as to what constitutes driven and by whom. Simple rejection especially when done by the majority of the group can push some people over the edge. Rejecting someone because they behave in a manner greatly different from one's self may cause the rejected person distress but it can be as much or more the doing of the rejectee and not the rejector. I firmly reject the Getto Blaster and Boom Car idiots in their obnoxious vacuous "look at what I can get away with" attitude and behavior So, I am not willing to jump to placing blame on the rejector. The whole situation is a spectrum for both the rejectee and the rejector.jochanaan wrote: I guess that, if we knew the circumstances of that 40%, we'd find that most of them were driven to it.
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